Maria,
When is the wedding of your friend? Please consider finishing your current job properly, coming to Ukraine around August of 2010, trying to find a job in Ukraine, trying to live in Ukraine (this what Ukrainian government expects from you if you want permanent residency in Ukraine), on approximately February of 2011 you can go back to Indonesia (hopefully, I will be able to join you). I need not to leave my parents and grandmother alone in Ukraine for too long, I hope my sister will come back to Ukraine in 2011. You expect from me what I cannot do. You and I do not understand each other. You speak like a preacher in a Lutheran church, I cannot accept that because these preachers are liars.
Love,
Michael