Maria,
The immigration officer told me that you must post me the document according to which I must pick up your permanent residency documents in Ukraine on your behalf, I must post these documents to you, and then you can apply for Ukrainian visa in Indonesia. I will try to give you the details later. It sounds like a very painful procedure. It seems that American political system makes many obstacles for our family to exist. You change your mind very often, you told me before that you did not need permanent residency in Ukraine, I told you at that time that permanent residency in Ukraine may be useful for you if you decide to be in Ukraine in the future, you told me that you will never be back to Ukraine, I told you that you might change you mind. I am very sick. I do not know if we should engage into this very painful procedure. I do not have money, energy, time for that.
Love,
Michael